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Parent Your Way With Boots UK And Mothercare #AD

by Author: Jade Lloyd

Becoming a parent can bring tremendous joy; at the same time, it is one of the most dramatic transitions in your life. An experience filled with challenge. When you are expecting, others explain how your whole perspective will change, your values, relationships, and you sort of roll your eyes and think ‘yeah, yeah’. Then it does. People find that becoming a parent is not what they expected; they might feel underprepared, exhausted, and overwhelmed. Not to mention sleep deprived.

Our lives have been turned even more upside down over lockdown. COVID-19 has certainly changed how I parent and even though there have been many tears and tantrums, our family has experienced post-lockdown growth (not just in my biscuit fuelled waistline). A lot of it because of changing my mindset. So, as restrictions ease what is important for us now is getting used to life with our children in a New Normal, with different rules and lot of uncertainty- but hopefully, with positivity too.

So, when Boots UK got in touch and asked us to share what has helped us as parents and a family during lockdown as part of their Parent Your Way campaign, it was perfect timing.

Little girl sitting by a dolls house wearing a pink outfit from Boots Uk

Read the 5 ways lockdown has taught me to be a better parent below:

  • Release your child from school pressure.

Like many parents I found the juggle of home schooling and working difficult, and that tension in the home that was counterproductive for learning. My son’s mental health suffered.

Even though I, like many parents worry that my child is now behind academically, seeing him getting so upset by proper nouns etc made me realise that emotional health is more important than grades. Of course, school is important, as is teaching children to work towards goals and face fears, but there must be a balance. You know your own child. Some families are even choosing not to go back to the school gate.

At half three when my son trips in the door, uniform covered in pen, I am just grateful at him being back in the classroom. If he does not get all his spellings right, well, we will try again tomorrow.

  • Self-care is SO important.

Avoid parental burn out and create your own quality time. However small. That could be binge watching Netflix. Reading a book. Taking a short walk. Since Norah was born, I have made sure each week I make time to have a bath. Over fill it, pour in Lavender, turn on your music and ignore the washing up.

Over lockdown I have worked on my morning routine. Got up before the children (which Is HARD at first when they wake so early). I had a quiet cup of tea, sometimes (just sometimes) I do a workout. The day starts calmer. After lockdown I put my daughter into nursery two days a week without guilt because I needed some space. Be compassionate towards yourself.

Frazzled, over-stressed parents make for frazzled and overstressed families.

  • Find the positives.

Over half of parents feel that their children’s behaviour got worse over lockdown. It is understandable. We have faced unusual times where all families are going through a huge, shared upheaval, full of anxiety and stress.

I know my patience levels have dropped dramatically. It happens when you are asked to provide 200 snacks during the day, don’t have a garden and can’t even go to the toilet solo. I did not realise, but I had got into a routine of reacting negatively, not shouting or overly criticising but there was a lot of ‘do not do that’s.’ If you find yourself constantly saying no, change your expectations. It will mean less frustration for both of you.

Praise accomplishments, however small, it will make children feel proud. Self-esteem is important. My son always says he is not good at things, so we were told to encourage him to say, I am not good at this YET. Choose your words carefully. It sounds like I am presenting myself as Zen mum. I am not, especially when tired. No one can push my buttons like a toddler trying to put on her own socks. But kids are surprisingly good at adapting if given support, time and space. Acknowledge you are an imperfect parent. We all are. Know your own needs, what your limitations are.

Don’t think in ‘shoulds’ – like my baby should be sleeping through. It is easy to give in unrealistic expectations of parenthood. You don’t have to know everything. If Sally next door makes homemade organic baby food, great. If you buy jars, great. Roosevelt once quoted ‘Comparison is the thief of joy’. Parent your way.

  • Keep things simple.

Because my tween is more self-sufficient that my toddler and loves hanging upstairs on his Xbox, we tend to lose opportunities for quality time. If he is playing quietly, I get on with laundry and the hundreds of other chores that mount up. But that time should be his too.

During lockdown because we had to think of simpler ways to entertain the kids, things like movie nights and board games became a big deal, when previously they took last place behind the zoo, football lessons, trips to the beach etc. Our weekend routine has changed to preferring walks on the beach rather than soft play and expensive days out. Claim one to one with your children. Don’t feel guilty if it’s hard to fit everything in if you are a working parent. Put post it notes in their lunchbox. I sit on my sons’ bed at night, and we listen to a song together. It’s the small things.

How and what I buy for the children has changed over the past year. I buy smarter, primarily online. Minimally, but give more thought to purchases. Will it help me? Is it useful? Toys tend to be ones that last, have multi-purpose. Rotate them each fortnight. The nappy wet wipe panic purchases meant I chose to potty train early and with cloth nappies, invested in a couple of Water wipes for the change bag but for at home have a stash of 20 flannels which I use instead of wet wipes. I buy clothes a size bigger and from trusted retailers. Dry them on the line instead of a tumble dryer.

I bought Leo’s first cot from Mothercare ten years ago and Norah is still sleeping in it. Although the stores have disappeared from the high street Mothercare essentials available on the Boots website (that also supports new parents with helpful information and has a Parenting club where Advantage club holders can build up points with purchases.) Norah put items from their Baby clothing range to the test (see end of post for product list), but they also stock baby nursery essentials, baby car seats, baby pushchairs, toys etc.

  • Don’t overlook the importance of friends.

Parenting can be a lonely business even when we are rushed off our feet. I feel sad about all the toddler groups my daughter has missed over the past year, their social importance for her (daily interactions play a significant role in early development), but also for me.

What about those becoming first time parents in a pandemic? The chance to escape the same four walls and have a cup of tea with other parents. Childbirth is a great ice breaker. Who better to speak to than someone who is going through similar things themselves? As a parent, you have two important jobs. Looking after your baby and looking after yourself. We need someone to share to, vent, confide and celebrate with. Play phone tag with and tell it like it is. Give tips and advice. I have had daily chats via video during lockdown with my friends. Some days we do not have much to say. But that is okay.

We have all been through a tough time, are mentally exhausted. Parenting involves juggling lots of plates. Put some of them down. I now panic less about spending hours cooking dinner and have an easy sandwich night a week. I still have a good routine but have relaxed on cleaning. We got rid of loads of stuff we did not need over lockdown and that helps. We relaxed our TV rules.

Little girl wearing floral dress and smiling as Parent of the Boots Uk Parent your way campaign

Has the way you parent changed since lockdown?

#AD This post is in conjunction with Boots UK but all thoughts are my own.

Clothing featured:

Norah is wearing the following Mothercare @ Boots products in the images top to bottom.

  • Llama Denim Pinny Dress And T-Shirt Set RRP £16.
  • Pink Heart Sweat Top £7 and Pink Heart Joggers £7.
  • Swan Frill Pyjamas 2 Pack £17 and Plush Unicorn Toy £7.50.
  • Grey Triangle Joggers £7.
  • Pink Knitted Cardigan £8 and Floral Frill Neck Dress £14.

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38 comments

Emily Smith 20th May 2021 - 11:33 pm

I love Mothercare. Great selection of clothes.

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Tiffany wills 20th May 2021 - 9:16 pm

i loved mothercare one place for all babies and toddler needs! i know its in boots now which is great to keep it going! my mum still has things from mothercare from when i was little <3

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Jayne Townson 20th May 2021 - 5:56 pm

Love those cute outfits, the Swan Frill Pyjamas are gorgeous.

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Tania Stannard 20th May 2021 - 3:27 pm

I love the pink heart set. Its bright, feminine but at the same time practical x

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josephine 20th May 2021 - 2:48 pm

I like Mothercare because they offer variety, they have a great selection of products to choose from, a really good range.

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Helen R 18th May 2021 - 2:20 pm

I love mothercare as their clothes are not only beautiful but good quality too!

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Alice F 17th May 2021 - 10:20 pm

Love the pink heart top and joggers set, so cute!

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laura Hayes 17th May 2021 - 8:48 pm

I have always loved mothercare for my 4 children.

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Emma Nicol 17th May 2021 - 2:58 pm

Mothercare was such a great shop, like a supermarket for all your baby and small child needs, you could get everything in the one store. It was such a British institution, I shopped there for my children and remember going myself when small

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Kim Carberry 17th May 2021 - 11:58 am

I remember when I was pregnant with my eldest over 18 years ago visiting Mothercare for the first time and it was so exciting being a new mum and shopping for all the essentials. The staff were always so helpful x

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Megan Montgomery 16th May 2021 - 11:48 am

Great read, I’m about to become a first time mum in a couple of months 💕

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Avs 16th May 2021 - 9:08 am

A trusted place to shop for parents, terrific range and quality products.

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Christina 16th May 2021 - 7:45 am

I love everything pretty much you can all get at Mothercare! Lots of clothes, accessories and big items with affordable prices!

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Mollie G 16th May 2021 - 1:44 am

The Floral Frill Neck Dress is adorable, I love it paired with The Pink Knitted Cardigan 🥰. Mothercare have always stocked some of the loveliest of clothes!

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MichelleD 15th May 2021 - 9:06 pm

I’ve always liked Mothercare, they’ve alays sold lovely, good quality and reliable things!

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Alice Gilkes 15th May 2021 - 8:52 pm

I love Mothercare because they have some really beautiful clothes at great prices.

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ruth robinson 15th May 2021 - 8:37 pm

mothercare was great such a shame it closed it stores great for advice and place to try out prams before you buy they had everything you need in one shop

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Amy Doyle 15th May 2021 - 6:22 pm

Always loved mothercare there clothes are good quality and always loved there maternity clothes

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kathcake2017 15th May 2021 - 6:08 pm

super cute pictures of your little girl! love her curls

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Katie J 15th May 2021 - 4:07 pm

The love the swan frill pyjamas, they are so cute and look lovely on!

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Carole Nott 15th May 2021 - 2:34 pm

A brand that can be trusted for good quality.

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Yasmin0147 15th May 2021 - 1:58 pm

They always had a great baby shoe range. It was so hard finding shoes for little one anywhere else.

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jollydollie2019 15th May 2021 - 11:49 am

Everything i need under one roof – love boots and mothercare

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Patricia Barrett 15th May 2021 - 11:47 am

Mothercare always has some great brand names at decent prices.

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Adrian Bold 15th May 2021 - 11:44 am

It’s been a long time since I was last in a Mothercare, but I do remember them having a great range of products.

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Amanda Shonfeld 15th May 2021 - 11:17 am

I love Morhercare as they have a range of good quality products

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AJ 15th May 2021 - 11:15 am

I love the pink outfit! It’s really lovely.

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Jodi Hill 15th May 2021 - 10:37 am

I’ve always loved mothercare, they always made a fuss over me when I was expecting & were really knowledgable about products!

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Rory Mcdonald 15th May 2021 - 10:17 am

I agree. Lockdown has been tough but mamy of us have come put of it stronger. Hopefully we all learnt the importance of our community of friends too.

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Kirsty Charleston 15th May 2021 - 10:16 am

I love the swan frill pyjamas they are so cute and girly and the prices of mothercare boots are so affordable. Ive always thought the quality of their clothing is really good and lasts too!

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Ursula Hunt 15th May 2021 - 10:13 am

I love the clothes styles and the prices in Mothercare

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Sheena Read 15th May 2021 - 10:11 am

Mothercare always has been one of the best shops for baby and childrens items.

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Margaret Clarkson 15th May 2021 - 10:03 am

I absolutely love the Pink Knitted Cardigan and Floral Frill Neck Dress – it is an adorable outfit.

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Dale Dow 15th May 2021 - 9:59 am

The pink pjs and slippers are so cute! Our local Mothercare closed but used to be in and out there all the time

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Helen Craigs 15th May 2021 - 9:49 am

I love the frilly pyjamas featured and the little unicorn toy, my little granddaughter age 2 loves unicorns, she calls them ‘noonoos’

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Lorraine Williams 15th May 2021 - 9:05 am

We bought our pram from Mothercare and they were so helpful making sure that we got the right one that fitted our needs.

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Lucy 15th May 2021 - 8:59 am

I love it because it has everything you need under one roof

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Anonymous 13th May 2021 - 9:58 pm

What a beautiful post 😊🙏😍

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